Romance is most important in a boyfriend/girlfriend. You need romance in your life. You love the extra dimension that romance brings to a relationship and you tend to fall in love very quickly.
Painful love is what is deep inside of you. When you love, you love with your whole being, and therefore, you get crushed if or when it ends. You are deep and sorrowed, wise far beyond your years. You don't say much, but your thoughts are never still. You aren't of this world.